Lagan
Traditional Vedic engagement ceremony establishing the formal commitment between families before the marriage ceremony.
What is Lagan
Lagan (Vag-daan) is the 'Gift of Speech'. It is the formal engagement where the two families give their word to each other. It includes the preparation of the 'Lagan Patrika' — the formal invitation to the deities for the upcoming wedding.
Why families choose it
To formally seal the commitment between families, to set the auspicious wedding date, and to begin the wedding festivities with divine blessings.
What's included
One transparent dakshina. Nothing hidden.
The Samagri you'll keep ready
The exact samagri is confirmed with you on your free consultation, so nothing's missed — you'll know just what to keep ready before the day.
Puja Samagri (typical)
- Haldi, kumkum & akshat
- Desi ghee, honey & jaggery
- Gangajal & Panchamrit ingredients
- Durva grass & tulsi mala
- Camphor, dhoop & mouli
- Deity idols, copper kalash & panchpatra
- Fresh flowers, betel, mango & banana leaves
Everyday items
- A clean space for the puja
- Milk, curd & mithai
- Five kinds of fruit, banana & a coconut
- Basic utensils & a big kalash
- An asan / chowki
Samagri may vary slightly with the scale of your Sankalpa and seasonal availability. Anything specific is always confirmed during your free consultation.
How it unfolds
From Sankalpa to Aarti
Vag-daan
The formal exchange of words and commitment between the fathers of the bride and groom.
Tilak Ritual
Applying the sacred mark on the groom's forehead as a sign of acceptance.
Patrika Pujan
Worshipping the wedding invitation card to ensure a smooth celebration.
Invite Lord Vishnu's grace into your home
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